I watch s19 but now catching up on Carina’s greys scenes and I’ve just watched the one where teddy gives birth. And when carina says she could masturbate teddy says ‘what?!’ But at the same time Owen says ‘no’. And I know it’s for comedic value but why does he get a say in what she does when she’s giving birth, she’s the one in pain and it’s her body. It just really annoyed me

I can imagine, anon. I haven’t really watched Grey’s past random skimming but what I’ve absorbed from the fandom is that Owen just really sucks. Everyone seems to have their own reason to hate him and every one of them is valid.