I think it’s supposed to be a very non-judgmental show, where even though these characters do things that are often very selfish and morally incorrect, cheating, lying, and a lot more, we’re supposed to sympathize or at least understand them. The show gives us time with them to see why they do what they do, why it matters to them.
And despite my clear bias to always favor women, I did go in with an open mind and was willing to see Oscar’s side of things and for much of the first season I did. Well, I always did, but it stopped being enough at some point. We see how many times he makes the decision to continue with Veronica and Sol and to not tell Alex and how he justifies it, and like, I’m pretty chill about affairs, so many of my f/f ships start like that, TV likes to create these overwrought situations where it’s so hard to just break things off, fine, but he’s just sooooo selllllfisssshhhhh for soooo lonnngggg. The position he leaves them all in! All three of them! When he leaves Alex just a goddamn horse? I just don’t like him.
